Love is actually ordinary.
He is a very plain and ordinary look, with a kind smile on his chubby face. If you are in the crowd, you will definitely not notice him first.
“Actually, I didn’t do anything,” he said with a thick smile. “I am a man, a head of the family. These are all things that should be.”
“We are a family. I am a Cantonese. I was born in Yuebei in the 1960s.”
When I was very young, my father died. Later, my mother and I and my grandmother remarried to the stepfather’s house.
The stepfather was divorced and had a daughter.
It is difficult to get along with such a complicated relationship.
But we are now a big family, nine people, seven different surnames, my son and surname, my wife a surname, a mother surname, a father and sister a surname, a nephew with his father (sister’s ex-husband) surname, now brother-in-lawA surname, in addition to my grandmother who was married with my mother, a surname.
Many of my friends come to my house and can’t figure out the relationship.
My mother is a particularly virtuous woman. She doesn’t read much, but she is gentle.
After marrying my father, the husband and wife are very loving.
Unfortunately, it didn’t last long. When I was one year old, my father got a serious illness. My mother tried her best to treat her father, but my father left us.
When my father died, my family was poor. My mother didn’t have a fixed job. She worked as a temporary worker to support me and my grandmother.
At that time, Grandpa had passed away, and his father’s sister and sister were married. They all said that they could not support their grandmother.
Grandma was crying and said that she could no longer put a burden on her mother. She had to go back to the country as a lonely old man.
But my mother said: “As long as I have a bite with my child, it will not make you hungry.
“So mother always took her grandmother with her, and later married her grandfather’s house with her grandmother until now.
My mother’s virtuousness is famous, and many people introduce her to her after her father’s death.
But because of taking me and my grandmother, my mother missed many opportunities.
When my father died, I was only three years old. Many men said that I could follow the door, but my grandmother could not. My mother listened and turned and left.
Later, my mother said to me: “A man who is not filial to the elderly, I don’t believe that he is good at transforming me.
“I admire my mother’s simple wisdom. Later facts show that her eyes are really accurate.”
Until I went to elementary school, my mother met my stepfather.
The stepfather divorced, and one person took his daughter to live. When the mother just married, the family also had the stepfather’s parents.
The three old people will definitely have friction together. The stepfather is very good to me and my grandmother. What is delicious to give to my grandmother, then my parents.
The stepfather will think about Grandma no matter what he buys for his parents.
My heart is more than my heart, my mother is very caring for her sister.
Mother will tailor, and every time the New Year’s holiday or the new semester begins, I must make new clothes for my sister.
In the New Year, I also made trouble with new clothes. My mother said, “You are a boy, you must be plain, your sister is a girl, you must be beautiful.”
In this way, our family, who met and lived together intimately.
Your pain is my pain. Over the years, my old and old family, my mother and stepfather’s hair are flying white.
When my sister graduated from junior high school, the family could not afford to have two children to study. My mother was saddened by tears.
The stepfather said to his sister: “Dad also hopes that you have a good future, but there is really no way. Your brother’s homework is better than you. You will give the opportunity to your brother.
“My sister was not willing to leave school, and she cried with her mother for a night, but the next day, she went to work without a move.”
When my sister took the salary for the first time, I bought a new school bag and said to me: “The hope of your family depends on you.
“I said to my sister with tears: “I will not forget you.”
“The whole family saved money and used it for me to graduate from college. Then I went into a big business smoothly and had a good job.
On the day of my college graduation, I decided to provoke the burden of the family and let my parents breathe a sigh of relief.
My sister has been working outside because she has not studied much.Later, she got married and gave birth to a nephew, but her brother-in-law was not good to her, she often beat her, and she did not give it to her family.
At that time, I said to her: “Do not worry, I am responsible for the cost of reading all the books.
Later, my sister divorced, and I took her and her nephew home.
Although the family is not affluent, it is better for a family to be together than a person.
At the beginning, my son didn’t want to sleep with the outsiders. I told him that when I was a child, my sister gave up the opportunity to study for me. I told him that my sister had taken care of me since childhood. Now my son and nephew are getting along like each other.brothers.
Later, my sister finally found a new feeling. With a good home, our family is happy for her.
I can’t think of a misfortune, my sister remarried less than five years, and my brother-in-law was unfortunately in a car accident and became a half-baked.
At that time, some people advised her sister to divorce, but my sister said to me: “Your brother-in-law has been taking care of me and my son since I married.
I will not abandon him because of his disability, I will take good care of him.
After listening to this, I remembered that my grandmother often told me that when my father was seriously ill, my mother said the same thing.
I let my sister rest assured that I will help him with his nephew and brother-in-law.
So I sold my house in the city center, bought a bigger house next to it, and let my sister and brother-in-law retired the house they rented and moved to live with them.
I bought a wheelchair for my brother-in-law. In order to make it convenient for him, I specially picked the first floor when I bought the house.
Therefore, we have this family, a family of nine, and seven surnames. We help each other and face the hardships of life together.
Mom and Dad are old, they have worked hard for a lifetime, and they want to let them enjoy more, but they have also been helping to do housework, buying food and cooking.
The son and nephew are also very sensible. Although the homework is very busy, they usually go to school after school or summer vacation, and they are rushing to go back to the doctor or to do physical therapy.
My wife and my sister try to do more part-time work outside of normal work and earn money to improve their lives.
Now that my brother-in-law’s body is getting better, we are preparing to raise a little money to see if we can give him a small shop near home.
The basis of love is character and should talk about my wife.
I got married late, when I fell in love, when the girl came to my house, I basically refused to meet again.
I look at it in general, the economic foundation is not too good, plus there is no sweet talk, and there is a family to support, especially the girl who is not willing.
The family is in a hurry, and many relatives and friends also help introduce.
When I met my wife, I was first conquered by her gentle smile.
The wife is a kind of girl who is particularly filial and especially filial to the elderly. She is the boss at home and takes great care of her younger siblings.
Looking at her gently smile, I remembered my mother, my mother is such a person, no matter what difficult, always with a gentle smile to the family, never temper, never arrogant.
They may not be too beautiful, but their beauty is diverging from the inside out.
When I met for the first time, I gave all the things in my family to her.
In fact, I just wanted to talk to her more, and I didn’t know what to say. I had to say something about my family.
The wife listened with a good temper and smiled.
Later, she said to me: “I think you are really weird. When people meet for the first time, they always try to say their good side, but you are desperately saying how much burden the family has. It seems that I am afraid that I don’t know how to carry it with you.The same burden.
“My wife was a little worried in her heart, afraid that she could not cope.”
But when I went home with my parents, my father-in-law said, “He can honor the old man so well. He is so good to his sister’s sister. He will definitely be worse for his wife in the future.
“In a word, the confidence of the wife was strengthened.
Because the age is not small, so we only talked for more than half a year, then talk about marriage.
It wasn’t long before we got married. The ex-sister’s brother injured her sister, and her sister went home with her young nephew.
At that time, my sister often had to work night shifts. In order to let her parents rest, the newlywed wife took responsibility for sleeping outside.
It’s really not easy to get a diaper for feeding once a night. It’s really not easy for someone who has never had a baby.
I am very guilty, my mother always said that she came to bring her children, let her wife rest, she still has to go to work during the day, but his wife always smiles like this: “It doesn’t matter, I will be an intern.”
“The wife has been sleeping with her nephew for two years until she is pregnant, and her sister has changed her job without a night shift, and she is sleeping outside.
As a result, the nephew cried for three nights.When the nephew cried, his wife also felt tears.
The wife is difficult to produce at the time of production and her body is very poor.
During that time, my stepfather’s mother was seriously ill and needed us to take care of her. In order to ease the burden on me and my family, my parents took their wife and baby back to their parents’ home. The two old people helped us a lot, but never hadA complaint.
The wife just passed, and the child will soon return home, saying that taking care of the maternity leave to help the elderly care for the elderly.
Our family members have many things. Every time we encounter something difficult, our younger siblings always have the money to contribute and help us.
My mother and stepfather always said to me: “It is a good fortune to be able to marry such a wife. You must cherish it.
“My wife has won the reputation of our family with her kindness, sometimes I have any arguments or quarrels with her, and my grandmother and grandmother, even my nephew, will help her accuse me.
I think that the Chinese ancients have some words that are particularly well-placed, and it is really good to say goodbye to their wives and women.
The cornerstone of love is morality. When you come back with a fairy, you will be tired of watching it for a year or two.
But the beauty of this kind of character from the bottom of my heart is the most important tie to accompany you through a long life.
Educating children to continue to live with morality, people continue to middle age, there are old, small and small, sometimes I feel that the burden on the shoulder is very heavy.
My sister and I are both sons. The boys grow up day by day, and the naughty and inferior is always indispensable.
When we educate our children, we always focus on “German”.
First of all, children should learn to honor the elderly, respect the peers, and love their younger siblings.
When the son and nephew just entered elementary school, we asked them to help their grandparents to do the housework as much as they could.
Later, when I grew up, I also let them do some of the work they could do.
The nephew was admitted to college last year. When he left, he said to me and his mother: “Mom, hey, you are too hard. When I graduate from college, let me raise this family.”
“At the time, my sister and I were very happy. We didn’t mean that he could be rich and expensive. As long as he had this filial piety, it was enough.
When my son was in the second grade of elementary school, he returned to his hometown in the New Year. His economic conditions were better than ours. He bought a lot of high-grade snacks in the New Year and gave him food. He ate one piece and let him eat another piece. He said”I can’t pack it home for grandma and grandma to eat, they haven’t eaten such delicious snacks yet.”
At that time, I was moved to tears, and I took my big box of snacks and let my wife back.
I listened to my son’s words and was sweeter than I ate.
This family will rely on these children to pass on from generation to generation in the future. Even if they travel all over the world in the future, even if they don’t necessarily be together in a big family like us, as long as there is affection in the heart, this life is possible.
I want to thank my parents, who let me deeply appreciate the value of family.
I will also pass on this precious feeling from generation to generation, let the children learn and grow in the environment of love.
Thank you for giving me this opportunity to let me talk about our family. Although we are all ordinary people, we believe that in the class of family and love, we are not lacking.Even richer than some wealthy people.
Looking at his hurried back in the sun, thinking about his smile and plain words, his heart is full of warmth.
I think in this story, I realize that “love” and “family” should not be me alone.
Home is the only place in the world to hide shortcomings and failures, and it also hides sweet love.